Wedding
Ceremony
Gone
are the days
when the wedding ceremony was always the same, it is today called the
traditional wedding, the only variation was which religious
denomination
performed it.
The
traditional
wedding ceremony is still popular but there are more and more couples
opting
for their own style of commitment ceremony.
Whether
traditional or your own style of ceremony there are elements that need
to be in
both.
There
is a
welcome by the celebrant/pastor/minister to the couple and guests.
He/she will
probably say a few words about commitment, the couple and marriage in
general,
like what is ahead for the couple.
Then
often times the celebrant will ask who gives this woman? At which point it is
normally the father of
the bride who steps up and takes this responsibility.
There
may be
scripture or prayer readings, maybe a poem that is special to the
couple.
Then
normally the
wedding vows are exchanges by the couple.
These can be the traditional vows or many
couples write their own. During
the exchange of wedding vows comes
the exchange of rings.
Exchanging
rings
can also be the couples own wording if they choose or it can be the
traditional
wording. There is
nothing to stop you
combining tradition with your own choices.
Once
the rings
are exchanged the celebrant will make the proclamation and pronounce
the couple
husband and wife to make it all official.
Then
comes the
legal part, the signing of the wedding certificate and the deed is done. While the wedding
certificate is being
signed there will normally be music of some kind, usually something
special to
the bride and groom.
After
everything
is signed and sealed the celebrant will introduce the couple to the
guests. Then comes
the time for the
cameras to come out. The
official
photographer will do the directing for the photos outside the church or
wherever the ceremony has been held.
Quite
often the
photographer has a spot selected to take special photos of the wedding
party
and usually this is only for the couple and the wedding party
attendants.
If
the photos are
going to take some time, the time for the wedding reception is set for
a few of
hours after the wedding ceremony.
Some
couples often arrange for the guests to go for coffee or cocktails in
between.
Then
it is on to
the wedding reception for a wonderful time.
Carmel Baird is a freelance writer and publisher of wedding information and resources at Creative-Wedding-Planning.com
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